Traits · Emotional Style · Support Seeking
Are you self reliant or a sharer?
When something heavy lands, do you carry it alone, or reach for someone?
Support Seeking is a personality trait with two sides: Self Reliant and Sharer. It is one of the 57 traits Velf reads from your this or that answers, part of Emotional Style.
Self Reliant
The Rock
Handles it soloSits with it quietly and works it out. Talks about it after, if at all.
Sharer
The Sharer
Talks it throughCalls someone before they know what to say. Saying it out loud is how it lifts.
Neither side is better. Most people lean one way, and the lean says a lot about them.
Where do you think you sit?
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Self ReliantSharer
What it looks like
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How you process and share feelings
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Quick this or that questions, never a quiz. It maps how you actually think, then finds people who think that way too.
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