Are you accommodating or firm?
Do you bend to keep things smooth, or hold your line even when it's awkward?
Assertiveness is a personality trait with two sides: Accommodating and Firm. It is one of the 57 traits Velf reads from your this or that answers, part of Conflict & Communication.
The Bridge Builder
Goes with the flowEats the wrong order and goes along with the group's plan. Smooth beats right.
The Anchor
Holds the lineSends it back, says what they'd prefer and pushes back on the weekend email.
Neither side is better. Most people lean one way, and the lean says a lot about them.
Where do you think you sit?
Tap a point on the line.
What it looks like
Real questions from Velf where this side of you shows. Pick one in each.
When food at a restaurant comes out wrong, you...
Your barber or stylist gave you a cut you don't love. You...
Friends are deciding plans and you want something different. You...
You disagree with a decision that has already been made. You...
More in conflict & communication
How you handle friction and say what you think
Your Velf reads 57 traits like this.
Quick this or that questions, never a quiz. It maps how you actually think, then finds people who think that way too.
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