Traits · Conflict & Communication · Forgiveness

Are you unforgetting or forgiving?

When someone hurts you, does it stay with you, or fade once the moment passes?

Forgiveness is a personality trait with two sides: Unforgetting and Forgiving. It is one of the 57 traits Velf reads from your this or that answers, part of Conflict & Communication.

Unforgetting

The Score Keeper

Remembers

Old hurts stay close for a long time. An apology helps, the memory stays.

Forgiving

The Forgiver

Lets it go

Once it's done, it's done. The hurt fades and the slate gets wiped.

Neither side is better. Most people lean one way, and the lean says a lot about them.

Where do you think you sit?

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UnforgettingForgiving

What it looks like

Real questions from Velf where this side of you shows. Pick one in each.

Your memory for who wronged you is...

After someone really hurts you, the hurt tends to...

When someone finally apologises for something old, you...

When you forgive someone, it tends to...

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