Traits · Conflict & Communication · Conflict Approach

Are you a peacekeeper or a challenger?

When there's friction, do you smooth it over, or step right into it?

Conflict Approach is a personality trait with two sides: Peacekeeper and Challenger. It is one of the 57 traits Velf reads from your this or that answers, part of Conflict & Communication.

Peacekeeper

The Peacekeeper

Keeps the calm

Lets the small stuff slide and steers tense moments back to calm.

Challenger

The Challenger

Names it

Would rather have the argument than live with the unspoken thing.

Neither side is better. Most people lean one way, and the lean says a lot about them.

Where do you think you sit?

Tap a point on the line.

PeacekeeperChallenger

What it looks like

Real questions from Velf where this side of you shows. Pick one in each.

When a conversation turns tense, you...

When something's bothering you, you tend to...

The perfect thing to say arrives two hours after the argument. You...

When family tension arises, your default is to...

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How you handle friction and say what you think

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